Concerned Nigerians have expressed worry over the increasing rate of divorce, urging couples to uphold commitment, mutual respect, and effective communication in marriage.
Dr. Clentinah Owokade, a former Deputy Registrar at the West African Examinations Council and Proprietress of Clemmy Schools, Lagos, emphasized that every marriage is unique and requires key principles to thrive. She pointed to effective communication, financial stability, patience, and genuine care as essential factors for a successful union.
“Unrealistic comparisons, social pressure, and busy schedules, especially among celebrities, can weaken marriages,” she said. She also cautioned against extreme feminism and male dominance, stating that both could create an imbalance in relationships.
Artiste Jack Emmanuel, known as Mr. Jack, highlighted the struggles in the entertainment industry, where many celebrity marriages fail within a few years. He attributed this to peer pressure and a lack of understanding of the commitment required in marriage.
“Marriage goes beyond feelings; it is a long-term investment that demands transparency, principles, and true love,” he said, urging men to avoid pride and foster peace in their homes.
Dr. Lizzy Omojuwa-Okiye, a Senior Human Resources Professional, noted that unmet expectations and financial pressures contribute significantly to marital breakdowns. She identified public scrutiny, social media influence, and busy schedules as additional challenges, especially for celebrities.
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She recommended pre-marital counseling, emotional intelligence, and open communication as ways to reduce divorce rates.
Rev. Fr. Anthony Afariogun, Chaplain of Our Lady Queen of Peace Catholic Chaplaincy, blamed social media, infidelity, and the “Japa” syndrome for the increasing number of failed marriages. He also pointed to a shift in societal values, where divorce is now seen as a celebration rather than a last resort.
“Some women today do not want to submit to their husbands, especially those who are wealthier. In the past, divorce was considered shameful, but now, some see it as a mark of freedom,” he said.
Princess Yomi Newton, President of the National Association of Female Medical Laboratory Scientists of Nigeria, stressed the importance of maintaining attraction in marriage, especially among celebrities.
She advised couples to undergo proper courtship and investigations before marriage to build a foundation of trust.
With divorce rates rising, stakeholders are calling for renewed commitment, deeper understanding, and a return to core marital values to strengthen the institution of marriage.
NAN
